tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76729351543822742732024-02-01T22:14:14.876-08:00Delineate My Life as in a PictureA discussion board for the voices inside my head.Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.comBlogger60125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-35886372343276208642013-09-08T16:07:00.000-07:002013-09-08T16:19:48.777-07:00Live Well<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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“You can go in now” It felt as
though the words had come from inside me, like a thought instead of a
sound. Time has a nearly infinite elasticity when you are waiting for
something as rare as your last moments with someone you love and time
for me had stretched to the point my consciousness had slipped
through. Then the nurse stepped into my peripheral vision as I sat on
the floor in the hallway. Her face was filled with compassion and
graced with a gentle smile. She held her hand out towards the open
door as if to welcome me. I could go in now. So I gathered my self
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My Dad seemed to be asleep. I quietly
took my place beside him and watched the machines do their work. And
I watched the clock. Time on this side of the wall was much
different. There is nothing as horrifying as having one irreplaceable
second after another stripped away from you as the thin red hand on a
clock circles. Not when your are just old enough to know what death
is and not old enough help anyone do it. “Why are you in such a
hurry?” my father asked. With this simple question juxtaposed with
the horror I felt in our time's passage I was instantly transported
back to another night.
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My Dad had just gotten home from
another emergency trip to the hospital. He cornered me in my bedroom
and accused me of hearing his cries of pain and ignoring them. He
said I wanted him dead. He was wrong. I wanted him to be well again.
I wanted to play chess again. I wanted to go shooting again. I wanted
to go fishing. I wanted to hear him read Shakespeare out loud. I
wanted to talk about science. I wanted to have the peace, and safety,
and completeness of having my Dad by my side. There was so much I
wanted to say but all I could offer him in this moment was silence,
and innocence. Eventually he left me alone in my room with all of
that to want and no one to hold. But, I was four years older and had
gained enough experience to meet what I felt was a harsh accusation
with the simple truth. “I'm only supposed to be in here twenty
minutes at a time.” Just then the same nurse came in the room with
a fresh blanket saying “Take all the time you need.” And with
those simple and profound words the spell was broken, my horror faded
and my Dad and I passed a couple of hours talking easily to one
another until he was too tired to go on and I left him to sleep.
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His question and my reaction to it has
clung to my life for the three decades since his death. It devoured
me slowly and nearly completely. After my Mother's death the loss of
her part of my Father's story made the memories of all the bad times
more poignant and predominant. Her narrative had sweetness and
memories of light my Dad had inside him. Without that point of view
to help guide me I sank into the evil of the wretched, premature end
of someone I love and need. Loss had become part of how I viewed my
world to the point there was no taste, no scent, no sound of anything
I once held dear. There was only longing and anger. Grief was like a
filter on a camera lens, unnoticeable except for the resulting image;
skewed reality. Finally, during a reliving of my experience in the
hospital I realized what was happening, that this pain was literally
killing me and with the <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/33941.On_Grief_and_Grieving">help</a> of people I love I found <a href="http://www.ekrfoundation.org/">a way out of the spiral</a>.
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This week I have come to say farewell
the third man I have loved the way you should love a Father, <a href="http://www.myrtlebeachfuneralhome.com/memsol.cgi?user_id=1085971">Dr. Ulysses Gonzalez</a>. He was a great man that lead a long life and died
surrounded by Family. I will miss him very much, many people will,
and his death should not be mourned but life without him will be. My
role in the ceremonies is singular, to be here when my Wife needs
me. The quiet within this simple duty has offered me a precious
moment of clarity. My Dad was really hoping to hear that I had
friends waiting for me. He wanted to hear that I had something
important to do or something fun. That I had to go to work to help
support the Family. He wanted to hear that the things were in place
that would give my life meaning and joy. He wanted to hear that he
had accomplished something very important by creating a whole person
strong enough to carry on with out him. In this moment I miss him
more than ever, and more than ever at peace with his absence.
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I see now that having a great number of
days in my life may not offer me a chance to pass from this life with
all conflicts resolved and a loving legacy. The quantity of my days
is not what I can control, my only chance is what I do with the time
I have left. If I want to die well I
must live well. I must work joyfully to create the world I
want and accept the world that exists. I must guard the health of my
body, and my mind, and my soul. I want to teach Ella how to play
chess. I want be a friend to as many people as I can. I must paint.
I want to laugh, a lot. I want to hear every word my Wife and
Daughter have to say and take them to heart and make them part of me.
I must learn to offer all my thoughts as expression of joy. Most of
all I must learn to face my fear without anger as a shield, because
when death comes I want to go smiling. </div>
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Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-29656200614966932972012-12-09T08:18:00.002-08:002012-12-09T08:21:28.655-08:00A Memory of My Father on the 30th Anniversary of His Death<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif; font-size: large;">As we approached the end my Father would tell me, every chance we had to be together, "I can't wait to spoil my Grand Child ROTTEN" Rowena and I have your back on this one Dad and </span><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">we will carry on in your name. </span><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">But despite our best efforts; pure sugar just doesn't spoil. </span></div>
Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-38924098154137969422012-05-27T18:27:00.002-07:002012-05-28T08:24:44.253-07:00The Price<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioFWpi1OIRXuacjaDnWeBP-b5ouqo00-Plq45aiFmLGPCoExatrMZnp0FrRwRXIoiramjH2Z7cgWF9-k6BPgJLtzgjkhrM_NudMLVpP_Ejr5H1kk-PNFGkuwdTgV3h_DimLuVnmbUt8Ys/s1600/3rd.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="432" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEioFWpi1OIRXuacjaDnWeBP-b5ouqo00-Plq45aiFmLGPCoExatrMZnp0FrRwRXIoiramjH2Z7cgWF9-k6BPgJLtzgjkhrM_NudMLVpP_Ejr5H1kk-PNFGkuwdTgV3h_DimLuVnmbUt8Ys/s640/3rd.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br />
" I don't know how long it took me to get to the bottom of that hill, to a point they couldn't see me. They had pinned us down early in the day, and it seemed like it took hours to get to the little swale where I could get upright enough to throw a grenade thirty feet. I didn't know how many men were up there. They had a machine gun, we knew that. It got quiet for a minute my squad was waiting for my order for covering fire and had their heads down so there was nothing for the machine gun crew to shoot at. So I grabbed a grenade, gave the sign, and all hell broke loose. I pulled the pin but there was no puff of smoke and I thought it was a dud. Then I remembered hearing about a new grenade that was quieter and didn't give off the puff of smoke that could give away where you were and what you were doing. Now usually you count to three before you throw so the bastards don't get a chance to throw it back at you. But it was too late for that and I had know idea how long I had been holding it. so I lobbed it up towards the ridge and it hung over their trench as it went off. Everyone in the trench got the full force and all the shrapnel. There was no more shooting from that position. I worked my way up and around with my Corporal, not taking any chances. Behind the machine gun were two Chinese gunners and farther down were two North Koreans next to a box full of ammo. The Grenade had killed them all. Now when you're shooting at a group or even someone in the open everyone's shooting. You don't know who killed who, and in the weeks after the Chinese joined the war there wasn't any time to think much about it, but I knew I had killed these men. I started to shake. The gunners had been torn up pretty bad but the Koreans were not. They looked like children. My Corporal went down and got the men together to move out. I joined up with them later, after I got my self back together. That Son, was the first time I knew for sure I had killed someone."<br />
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Memorial Day addition:<br />
What I cannot express in this was how my Father's voice changed as he spoke. At first he was angry I had asked if he had killed someone in the war, I guess he had been asked the question before, but it ended as more of a confession. As painful as this admission was, it opened the door for other discussions to follow.</div>Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-82781604840412503122012-05-19T08:20:00.001-07:002012-05-19T09:46:43.635-07:00Dear Ella<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKW1IrP8JcHzxtlaPXzOXH-OgGsgl7FNdTQqQHogXvN16UHhyK3hri2SPvb09bzIjkq0_Lt5FqEY7oTqD5vh8Z_LwrH-aF3GQoCw8G4Jdm0Kdlonc__p5MRxxM1K-s-KTuDn_IopHI9EQ/s1600/fierce.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKW1IrP8JcHzxtlaPXzOXH-OgGsgl7FNdTQqQHogXvN16UHhyK3hri2SPvb09bzIjkq0_Lt5FqEY7oTqD5vh8Z_LwrH-aF3GQoCw8G4Jdm0Kdlonc__p5MRxxM1K-s-KTuDn_IopHI9EQ/s400/fierce.jpg" width="281" /></a></div><br />
<div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dear Ella,</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">As your Father I feel it is my duty to protect you from danger. I will, however, not always be able to do so. You may not always want me to try. But there are times in almost every one's life when a dangerous situation happens beyond anyone's control. If this happens to you, as it has to me, you will need to put your knowledge,your ability to think, and your training into action even though you will be afraid. </span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Swimming class is part of this training. It is a skill that may one day save your life. It is a skill that will also be a chance for you to grow strong in your body and confident in your ability to achieve. It will give you Freedom; the chance to enjoy the world more completely. What you did this week when you “jumped into the deep end” was take another step into what will be your world and your life. I am proud of you for this. You trusted us and yourself and you did a great thing. </span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">In honor of your your achievement you will get to choose your own bicycle today. One that will never have training wheels,</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Your Dad</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">5/19/2012</span></div></div>Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-33886010293369071772012-04-29T19:02:00.002-07:002012-04-29T19:29:49.374-07:00Voice<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMd4IdPln2FtC10_UjiMwsXpLDElbfhlBewDiZ9_zCzPjL4MNmP1T_81vduBy4qU1yFiAJKc7v12uFFgGDfhfbCIXISEczqHFUE5qPmZNsxIMhVSLdepgPaepWrcWIdUclkPBWIZagjd0/s1600/voices.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMd4IdPln2FtC10_UjiMwsXpLDElbfhlBewDiZ9_zCzPjL4MNmP1T_81vduBy4qU1yFiAJKc7v12uFFgGDfhfbCIXISEczqHFUE5qPmZNsxIMhVSLdepgPaepWrcWIdUclkPBWIZagjd0/s1600/voices.jpg" /></a></div><span style="font-size: large;">T<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">his is the Woman God has lead me to. And when I listen to her I can hear the Voice of God. I hear the Truth. I hear the Wisdom. There is Resonance. In Her Words the World is laid before me like a Feast. It is because of her I can hear the Voice of God. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">This is the Child God has given us. When I hear her, when I listen, I can hear the voice of God. I hear Laughter. There is Great Joy. Wonder. We Learn together. There is an Echo in the Valley with every Word and it is the Voice of God. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">When we gather together, You and I as two or more, What Is Among Us shall have a Voice. I want to share what is in my Heart. I will talk about my Fears without Fear. I will share the things I Hope For. I will offer what little I have that is mine, and in the Moments we share Silence, perhaps we shall hear the Voice of God.</span></div>Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-51249444062265818292011-12-09T05:44:00.000-08:002011-12-10T08:42:29.735-08:00A Memory of my Father on the 29th Anniversary of His Death<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody>
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My Father had been a tournament player when he was in the Army, and he had respect for me as a player, but he always said I relied too much on tactical play. I could beat most players with my ruthless application of combinations of forks and skewers. Use these tactics against lesser players and eventually they will make a mistake that costs them a piece and then two and then you just mop up. But a Strategic player will accept these attacks and just trade wood with you while they slowly develop their position and then just take you down in the end game. I had kept a book carefully noting each move in every game with my father. In the hundred pages or more you could see my progress as more and more games reached the magical 40+ move mark. But each page ended with white resigns, Dad always gave me the first move and my resignation had always been the last. He had given me his copy of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Fireside-Book-Chess-Irving-Chernev/dp/0671212214">"The Fireside book of Chess"</a> "Study these games son and you will learn strategy; how these masters win by thinking one more move ahead than their opponent." We read the book together . We set the chess board and followed these the games, move by move, together.<br />
When my father made a quick move to accept what was on its surface a piece for piece swap, the trap was sprung. When instead I took the bishop that "protected" my knight and moved it to attack the pawn in front of my Father's queen that was the target along the rooks soon to be open file. The room got very quiet. He lit his pipe. He folded his hands on the table with purpose as he moved the pieces in his mind. I could see it written in his face, the sixth move would be a choice. He could give up his queen or face check mate. He lifted his hand , picked up his king and laid it softly on the board. "Good Game Son" he said in a matter of fact way as he reached across the board to shake my hand. He lit his pipe again as I wrote in my notebook for the very first time. "Black Resigns". And then he started to laugh. And the laughter grew and was like thunder.<br />
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Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-9596720221547120032011-10-02T05:53:00.000-07:002011-10-02T05:56:11.332-07:00For My 5000th Pageviewer<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I write because I believe each souls experience is valuable. Please share yours freely and without fear. I want to reprise "To Witness" for this milestone. I feel the witness inside Ella growing stronger and I am proud of both of us for it. </span></span><br />
<div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">***</span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">It was gray Mid-Winter when I stepped into my back yard and a flock of 20 or so sparrows burst from the ground and formed into a tight formation at full speed. As they came to the Maple they spread without collision to pass through the barren tree without touching a single branch. On the other side they formed into a flight not much larger than myself and disappeared into the cold landscape beyond the fence. As I watched all these beautiful souls pass through another beautiful soul I felt a familiar presence.</span></span><br />
<div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">***</span></span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-size: small; line-height: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"></span></span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="color: black;">I want to thank organized religion for three gifts. First I would like to thank the Catholic Church and specifically Pope Urban VIII for the persecution of Galileo Galilei. Scientific matters aside, it was the motivation for Rene' Descartes writing of <i>Discourse on the Method of Rightly Conducting One's Reason and of Seeking Truth in the Sciences</i>. Millions have created their intellectual structures on the foundations made possible by this treatise, exclusive of the Holy Roman Church's designs. Thanks to Urban VII I have only one possession - my own consciousness as the creation of dialog between the world and my own existence. My life is: what I see, what I hear, what I think, what I choose.</span><span style="color: black;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="color: black;">I would like to thank the Deacons of the Baptist Church my family attended when I was a child. When they discovered that wine was consumed at dinners with our family and the Pastor they fired him. I loved the Reverend. I enjoyed the conversations between him and my Father. I knew it was a great injustice and it severed my attachment to religious institutions permanently. He was then free to become President of a local university and I was free to look for God on my own. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="color: black;">The most profound gift I received from a church, however, came during Sunday School just before our exile from the Baptist Church. The lesson was about the Creation and I was moved by the idea that God had desires. There was something that seemed strange about God needing something more than what he is so I asked the teacher" Why did He make us?" Her name is lost to me but her answer is not: "Perhaps he was lonely. He wanted someone to share with all the beautiful things he had made. God needs us. He sees the world through us. We are his eyes and his ears on Earth." The meaning of the moment was amplified perhaps because it is where my conversation left off with religious institutions. But it was the way she said it. She spoke directly to me. Her voice soft. Her words were complete the way a subtle gesture is complete.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="color: black;">Adults become conditioned to loneliness, but survival has instilled a special discomfort for this feeling in children. Lonely. A child understands another child's grief in solitude. A child would create the universe to not be lonely anymore. In my child's mind God was a child like me. One that loves to make things and to tell stories. He was inviting me to play with him. My life, the act of living, was part of Him. My seeing. My hearing. The tasting of fresh milk and my Grandmother's Pie, the feeling of my fifth grade girlfriend's hand in mine. All of these things an essential part of God's knowing and dreaming. And in the moments that I was conscious of the connection I wanted God to see the best of me.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="color: black;"> ***<o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="color: black;">"Yes, I'll sit by you. I love you too, I love you with all my heart. I am so proud of you. Be careful climbing that. AAAAAaaare you OK? Your knee? Yes, I'll blow that part a kiss. Great daddy take down. Sure, let's watch Ratatouille again. No I didn't know that Painted Lady Butterflies had ten thousand eyes. They migrate a thousand miles! Read that for me again. I'll read one for you too. Again?!? Great ballet jump. I love to see you dance!"<o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="color: black;">She wants a witness, and until she finds the one inside her I will witness everything she has to offer. In my adult’s mind God, a child like her, is the vessel that contains all of her experiences. Within God is the culmination- the full measure of everything she has seen, heard, tasted, felt, thought, feared and loved. My wife's years before we knew each other are there. The perfect life of the child, unborn, we mourned but I never met. We are there together - along with the singular, complete experience of every living thing there has ever been in the expanse of space and time. The flight of every bird, the stretching of their muscle and the flowing of wind across feather. The breathing of trees and the sense of what it means to flower. The sight from ten thousand Painted Lady Butterfly eyes on a thousand mile journey. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in; margin-left: 0in; margin-right: 0in; margin-top: 0in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="color: black;">Now that I am constantly aware of the connection I want God to see the best of me; for us to see the best of each other. "Yes God, I will sit with you. I like to paint flowers too. What a beautiful story. My friends tell stories - I need to take Ella to hear them. Great sunset! Remember the one I did for Little Shop? OK I'll keep trying. Yes, very proud of her. I love you too. With all my heart. I love to see you dance!"</span></span></div></div>Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-65411053459259838402011-09-25T15:18:00.000-07:002011-09-25T15:36:19.919-07:00Visions of Time<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br />
<div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"> I believe that every moment is eternal. Time does not pass. Consciousnesses persists as we flow from one existence to the next in a nearly infinite progression. We experience this as change as we move through space and we call that Time. Everything that has ever existed still exists and everything that can exist has always existed. I am bound to a past and a future, not by memory or potential but by matter and space. I believe the linear <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/sean_carroll_on_the_arrow_of_time.html">Arrow of Time</a> is a creation of <a href="http://arstechnica.com/science/news/2010/03/physicists-look-for-the-arrow-of-time-biologists-find-it.ars">Biology</a>, not Physics and each individual Life's <a href="http://www.zonezero.com/zz/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=1292%3Athe-arrow-of-time&catid=8%3Aessays&lang=en">Narrative</a> is a creation, like our <a href="http://www.yorku.ca/eye/thejoy.htm">vision</a>, stitched together and inverted internally in our minds to help create a consistent model of the world around us. I believe that Time is how we are made capable of knowing ourselves and the other incarnations of consciousness swirling through the Universe together. I have struggled for two decades to be able to distill my thoughts about Time into this single paragraph and the effort has come with some cost. To believe fervently in your own experience and intuition, and to come to a conclusion diametrically opposed to what is accepted as humanity's experience of reality can be very disturbing.</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;"><div style="text-align: left;">My estimation of my sanity got a needed boost while I was watching an episode of <a href="http://science.discovery.com/tv/through-the-wormhole/">“Through the Worm Hole”</a> about time and I was introduced to a physicist that believes many of things I do but he has done the math that helps prove them. <a href="http://platonia.com/">Julian Barbour</a> is, among other things, the <a href="http://platonia.com/books.html">Author</a> of “<a href="http://www.amazon.com/End-Time-Next-Revolution-Physics/dp/0195145925/ref=pd_sim_b1">The End of Time</a>” He <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6wYhjyEfnI">describes</a> <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hqjqAhI_bfs&feature=related">existence</a> as a series of “<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WKsNraFxPwk">Nows</a>” each a separate Universe in itself. I do not expect Mr. Barbour to become a house hold name anytime soon. His ideas have not been readily accepted by everyone in the theoretical physics community. But he has given a great gift; the ability to more freely accept and explore the consequence and artifacts of my perception. </div></div><div align="CENTER" style="margin-bottom: 0in;">***</div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">The sensation of time is difficult to control. However, there are times in most of our lives when the sensation can become so muted the time seems to hover, warp and nearly stop. These events are usually the great transitions of our lives: marriages, deaths, births, ceremonies marking rites of passage. During these moments you are present in its true meaning. The event is an essential component of your existence, of your passing through place. You have nothing else to do but take part by adding your action and witness. You have no doubts, no discordant voices to pull you consciousness in another direction. These moments mark an epiphany, your manifestation in this plane. </div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">It was the first Summer of our lives together for Rowena and I. She was sleeping beside me on a hot Summer afternoon. A gentle rain was falling, even as sun streamed into the room through 3 small gaps in the curtains. I watched a small thread of dust twist slowly in the beam. As a laid transfixed by it's motion the sound of Rowena's breathing and the sound of rain joined and hushed to silence and then the thread hung in the ether, motionless. At this moment I could feel the past. It was not a memory, I could feel my body stretch into it, connected to everyone I had touched and loved as if I was still beside them, holding them. I knew I had come to the place I was supposed to be, when I was meant to be there. The woman beside me was the person I was to spend eternity with and eternity was there with us. And then the future crashed upon me, the sparkling river of a young girls laughter from the other side of the window. I knew what I heard was the voice of someone waiting for me to join her life. Then the thread began to spin out of the sunbeam. Rowena turned and with her head on my shoulder, still asleep, joined in the laughter from deep within her dream. It was from that moment on, I was aware of my destiny, and I was glad for it. <br />
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<div align="LEFT" style="line-height: 0.12in; margin-bottom: 0in; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: Constantia, serif;"></span></div><div align="LEFT" style="line-height: 0.18in; margin-bottom: 0in; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"></div><div align="LEFT" style="line-height: 0.18in; margin-bottom: 0in; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333;"> <span style="color: #333333;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Constantia, serif; font-size: large;">All across America there are <a href="http://www.teaparty.org/">adult children that still live with their parents</a>. But when their parents ask these adult children to pay the <a href="http://www.irs.gov/">Cable TV Bill</a> it's a big problem. These children read a great <a href="http://atlasshrugged.com/">article</a> in Gamer Magazine about how smart video gamers are and how valuable gamers are to an ungrateful world and how you can buy 2 video games a month for what you pay for cable TV and what's up with all those channels that nobody in their right mind would watch anyway. Well the adult child pays the cable bill, because it's the cable modem that lets him game with his buds on the west coast and if he moves out who would cook for him and do his laundry, but night and day the injustice of the $89.95 and all those channels eats at him. " You know why the cable bills so high OPRAH WINFREY thats right OPRAH WINFREY She makes the local cable company pay way too much for Oxygen and OWN and Lifetime and Hallmark and it's just not fair, those channels suck." So he rips the article out of gamer magazine and uses his favorite magnet to place it on the refrigerator, right at Mom's eye level where she can't miss it. He emails the article to his Dad. He reads it out loud at the dinner table but both Mom and Dad excuse them selves and go out "for a walk" before he can get to the good parts. After a while he gives up because its obvious they are incapable of understanding Gamers Magazine's magnificent prose. But the Ache never goes away. Effing Oprah Winfrey, Bitch. He decides on a course of action!! He will NOT pay the cable bill until all traces of Oprah Winfrey have been removed from from any all cable TV channels! He wears anti Oprah T shirts he bought from Zazzle. He starts his own anti Oprah web site. He organizes a protest march that will culminate in a public burning of VHS copies of “Beloved” and “The Color Purple” that he bought at McKay's just for this purpose. A local News producer hears about the march and although only 4 other non-cable-payers-until-Oprah-is-erased..ers show up <a href="http://www.cnbc.com/id/43929730/Scenes_from_the_Tea_Party_s_Hold_the_Line_Rally?slide=3">cleverly framed shots</a> do not show this. The video goes viral because it makes Moms and Dads laugh to see that they are not the only ones with Oprah haters that drink directly from the milk jug still living at home. But it also resonates with all the non-cable-payers-until-Oprah-is-erased..ers. Soon a <a href="http://www.teapartypatriots.org/">movement</a> is born. A manifesto is written, heavily paraphrasing the original Gamer Magazine article. <a href="http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2010/08/30/100830fa_fact_mayer">ESPN</a> thinking that on the Venn diagram of cable watchers there is barely a tangent between OWN viewers and theirs decide to bank roll a non-cable-payers-until-Oprah-is-eraseder protest in Washington DC! ESPN really doesn't give a rats a$$ about Oprah or the movement but wants to squeeze more money from cable outlets for <a href="http://thinkprogress.org/green/2011/04/06/174966/koch-front-groups-americans-for-prosperity-and-alec-have-taken-over-new-hampshire/">THEIR</a> content. With ESPN's support the movement grows until the cable companies agree to ESPN's price as long as the shut the eff up about Oprah because the are still making a bunch of money off her. Moms like Oprah, and Mom buys the food. Eventually, without ESPN's underwriting, the movement fades into history. And the original non-cable-payers-until-Oprah-is-eraseder's book about the evil of the Oprah Winfrey Network is never </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">published. The Ache however never dies.</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;"> </span></span></div><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">like </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">water</span></span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">Time waits</span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: large;">soft furry coils</span><br />
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</div>Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-58455678862310324052011-05-29T06:08:00.000-07:002011-06-25T07:38:49.717-07:00In the Garden<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">It was Wife and Daughter that inspired me to create my own Water Garden! </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Having the lilies in their own ecosystem where I can be at eye level has taught me about the lives of these creatures and how our distinctions between plants and animal and everything else that lives are purely subjective.</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkDQf4BailBwt3_0TlSNhZdu6TYEPvGpTyC-7LNYzzoCXAM6CgfHObPgnFuMZ0Q7h5w-es9Q0zOhTrbkSe-M1pbN5hNTHl1bvQQ0Dp4pKW-WTjh-Mc-FOjsfam7eAgd15v9nX3oPlEP6I/s1600/day+3+001.1+web.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="427" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkDQf4BailBwt3_0TlSNhZdu6TYEPvGpTyC-7LNYzzoCXAM6CgfHObPgnFuMZ0Q7h5w-es9Q0zOhTrbkSe-M1pbN5hNTHl1bvQQ0Dp4pKW-WTjh-Mc-FOjsfam7eAgd15v9nX3oPlEP6I/s640/day+3+001.1+web.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br />
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<div align="LEFT" style="margin-bottom: 0in; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-style: normal;"><span style="font-weight: normal;"> I had passed it every day on my way home, at the entrance ramp at the beginning of Ellington Parkway just North of downtown Nashville, a simple cross made of a perforated steel channel, ubiquitous in construction, known as unistrut. It is on the public right of way adjacent to one of Nashville low cost housing projects and conjures many images juxtaposed as it is against the poorly maintained apartment buildings that have sheltered people suffering from despair and sickness for decades. This is just one of hundreds of such monuments to highway deaths I have seen on roads here in the South.</span></span></span></span> I try to take a moment to realize the meaning of loss these crosses represent and honor the public, if anonymous, <span lang="en-US">display of grief.</span></span></div><div align="LEFT" style="margin-bottom: 0in; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span lang="en-US"> </span> I nearly sideswiped the car beside me. As tried to merge onto Ellington I found the gray cross now completely covered in purple, red, and pink silk flowers. For years I had no evidence that it had ever been touched by human hands. The dour specter now seemed to be singing, brought to life by this human kindness. But the song faded. As the weeks went by the flowers tuned to white from the Sun. As the Months passed they turned as gray as the steel. And as Winter came and went the flowers fell away. Last year's flood washed away the cross bar where once hung memory and solace. I wonder, were the flowers a commemoration of the passing of the soul this cross represented. Where they in honor of the person who had left it there years before, now gone to be with the one they so loved. Did the memories of the one they lost fade away, or did they become to painful to bare any longer. I will never know. The Cross is silent.</span></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0in; orphans: 2; text-align: center; widows: 2;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">***</span></div><div align="LEFT" style="margin-bottom: 0in; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">It is a blessing, that the dead are always faithful. Their deeds now recounted and numbered and relived by those that still have dreams and needs of their own. The living search that past for the kindness they need today and with what they find they embody the souls of the absent and form a cradle for their remembrance. It is a blessing for the dead that their lives now flow not with the revolutions of our Earth but the revelations of our hearts. </span></div><div align="LEFT" style="margin-bottom: 0in; orphans: 2; widows: 2;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> It is a blessing for the living to always be faithful. To guard your thoughts and words and deeds as you would eternity. To always act in the best interest of those that love you. My Father told me, when I was a child, that if something is so important to you that so foremost in your mind that you can say it when you see a falling star that that wish will come true. I will try to say “ I will earn my daughters faith in me.” before the light can die.</span></div></div>Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-14793852094142790392011-01-07T05:46:00.000-08:002011-01-07T05:46:14.136-08:00A MistakeI was working in the studio trying desperately to fix something I felt was a blunder. I ran from the room to get a rag and some water and in the moment when I collected myself before resuming I saw the beauty that had been created on it's own, perhaps on it's own. I guess sometimes the correction is the mistake.Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-26986125758260430602010-12-26T17:51:00.000-08:002010-12-27T05:23:51.712-08:00Painted Ponies<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none; text-indent: .5in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I had watched them for several years and didn’t think much of it; a boy riding a paint pony with his father walking besides the two holding the lead line of the halter. I just thought the Father was a little over protective since the child was nearly my age judging from his height. It wasn’t until the rider’s feet hung half way between the pony’s belly and the ground that I became concerned. At first I thought my parents were angry when I asked if the teenager was too big to be riding him. “You just don’t need to worry yourself about that pony. We should all be so well taken care of.” It was a double team. “They don’t go that far. It’s barely a mile to the lake from their place. Besides he barely weighs a hundred pounds!” It wasn’t anger though; it was more like fear, more like dread. There was something else, something they wouldn’t tell, or couldn’t tell me. It got quiet at the dinner table after that. They didn’t look at me. They didn't look at each other. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none; text-indent: .5in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Now they had a element of mystery for me. I stationed myself in the boat at the north end of our lake where they passed by every Saturday and Sunday and I could observe. On Sunday they were like clockwork, one PM, after church. The Father and Son dressed alike -matching actually - khakis, work boots, flannel shirts and St. Louis Cardinals baseball caps. They had the same sandy brown hair. They wore matching eyeglasses. But the Boy’s clothes fit differently. His shirt was untucked and oversized and his neck and wrists swam in their openings. He was emaciated. His head wobbled as the pony walked and he leaned to one side. But they smiled, always, Father and Son the same smile. The paint was fat and slick and spotless, and if ponies could smile I am sure he would have too. <o:p></o:p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none; text-indent: .5in;"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwPaAJR5Vf5gewz3LmqZDtH0p63S6LMwjApb8xmKD5OND_PxdwlqnaHEOMIwqFdDRoSkXxW6OMNRe8n2Mjwdk22jZcPH048g8MCLInO6t6TBCWPbUlGVSVxHgKPKxn9-qO14WIcnAH7ZI/s1600/pony.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwPaAJR5Vf5gewz3LmqZDtH0p63S6LMwjApb8xmKD5OND_PxdwlqnaHEOMIwqFdDRoSkXxW6OMNRe8n2Mjwdk22jZcPH048g8MCLInO6t6TBCWPbUlGVSVxHgKPKxn9-qO14WIcnAH7ZI/s320/pony.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">***</div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">My half Arabian gelding, Banner, knew what was about to happen. The pavement dead ended into a long abandoned coal company road and the gravel that would harm his hooves had long ago washed away. I shortened the stirrups on the old hunt seat English saddle to nearly Jockey length and gathered the reins in either hand short and tight as he strained in anticipation. My barely audible verbal click was the downbeat. He coiled into a half rear and leapt down the road. A hundred yards flashed by before I could catch my next breath and this was punctuated by the impact of landing as he jumped a mud puddle. Then we came to the stretch where he always turned on that extra gear he had. Standing in a tight crouch with my head beside Banners neck I was fixed in the space we shared except for my hands, now in front of me, moved forward and back as each stride lengthed. His mane whipped my face and the world was a swirl of light and early autumn’s first falling leaves. Four beats and silence. Four beats and silence. In the silence, when all four hooves were off the ground, we were flying.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Banner pranced in a hard trot for half the trip home. He was never one to bolt for the barn, but the weather was cool and it took him a while to relax after all the excitement. He finally slowed to a walk as we turned down Parklane which would take us home. This is where I always saw the happy trio, as I had come to think of them and I realize I had not seen them in weeks. I had never spoken to them but we always waved . It was too cold to spray Banner with the hose , which he loved when it was warm, so I took extra time to walk him until all the sweat had dryed where the saddle pad had been. His winter coat was already coming in and brushing out the salt and the mud that had splashed all over him from our run worked up a sweat of my own. I turned him loose to rejoin his pasture mates and immediately he laid down and rolled in his usual spot in the middle of the pasture. All the brushing was erased in an instant but that's part of the bargain, brushing your horse after a ride is not optional. I kissed my Mom on the cheek and grabbed a fried chicken leg and a tall glass of milk from the refrigerator. We sat at the kitchen table as I talked about my ride, and school, and college the next fall. "you know mom I haven't seen those two and that little paint lately, have you?" She turned white, visibly shaken. She took my glass and plate and turned to rinse them in the sink. She looked out the window as she methodically wiped the plate dry. “He died two nights ago. I was working in the emergency room when they brought him in. He.." She couldn't finish the sentence. "You never get used to seeing the children go, especially like that. It's just not right."</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: center; text-indent: 0.5in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">***</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; text-align: center; text-indent: 0.5in;"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none; text-indent: .5in;"><span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: black;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 115%;">Horses are </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">spiritual</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 115%;"> beings. They are the </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 18px;">substance</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 115%;"> of dreams. You can learn a lot about justice by spending time in their company as well. Foremost, don't expect too much from it, at least not all at once. The same type of noble beast would carry the boy and I down the same path for just a little while. These horses bound us to our families in joy and sorrow and gave us dreams of our own. He would leave his horse </span></span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 18px;">with</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; line-height: 18px;"> the living and I would leave mine to go to college. I would get to drive cars. I would learn to make beautiful things. I would kiss girls.</span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0in; mso-layout-grid-align: none; mso-pagination: none; text-autospace: none; text-indent: .5in;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="line-height: 115%;">It wasn’t until my own little girl was born that I learned my Mother had taken <span class="apple-style-span"><span style="color: black;">thalidomide during pregnancy. For her, to have healthy children was it’s own spiritual burden. When you are standing in the warmth and sunshine it is easy to see the grace of God to be as wide as an ocean. But when you see the pain of others you realize that grace has a border as hard and clear as the edge of a razor. You know what side of the line you are on today. You know the line will be drawn anew tomorrow. So </span></span></span>In the morning I will kiss my perfect, healthy daughter awake. I will try to be a good father, and pay my debt to painted ponies.</span><o:p></o:p></div>Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-39549433202903480202010-11-22T05:13:00.000-08:002010-11-27T08:47:56.175-08:00New Collage November #2 Progress - Continued on my new site One Child's Icon<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMt7ftMGM0frYV8pQoQTEEx9e-aqeA4bw0jWKMyeChrAq6mW2SsykESxaTB2231DdfKoG0ifWEcZ6t3uxGGjP6XG7BeSiR-ENe2Gugms_oav8tr_sh9xN3FokOMKZPc6SDnV7xz5fqeCI/s1600/November++2+Day+1+Morning.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMt7ftMGM0frYV8pQoQTEEx9e-aqeA4bw0jWKMyeChrAq6mW2SsykESxaTB2231DdfKoG0ifWEcZ6t3uxGGjP6XG7BeSiR-ENe2Gugms_oav8tr_sh9xN3FokOMKZPc6SDnV7xz5fqeCI/s320/November++2+Day+1+Morning.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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</div>Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-23048420237926351942010-11-13T08:06:00.000-08:002010-11-13T08:06:24.041-08:00One Hundred<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 6.0pt;">The grizzled old Nashville song writer chastised the audience “You’ll never be a songwriter by writing two songs a year.” It was one of those events I was paid to be a technical baby sitter. My job was to be there in case something went wrong. We were in a cozy hotel ballroom and chances of disaster at the “Song Writers Symposium” were remote in the extreme. Being devoted to my paycheck, however, I sat behind the lighting console reading a book until this guy in his 2 pack a day gravel baritone started talking.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“You want to write the perfect song, but if the song don’t flow when you’re writing it, it won’t flow when someone’s singing it.” He had my attention. “I set my sights on writing one hundred songs. The first few dozen were junk, but I got better and I didn’t give up. I got better and faster at the same time. Number ninety eight got recorded. Number ninety nine made it to the top forty on the Country charts which at the time meant I could afford to buy a new car. Number<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>one<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>hundred made it to number five on the charts and after that I quit my job to write songs full time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It took me a little short of three years. You have to let go of a song sometime.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Once someone sings it on a record it ain’t yours no more anyway”. I’m sure the lawyers that had the stage later that day would have argued that last point. I was reading intently by then and never heard a word they had to say.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 6.0pt;">When a friend told me that something in one of my posts helped her at a time she really needed help, I was taken a little aback. I write for myself.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In many ways it is purgative. It is like placing troubles on a leaf and letting them float down the river. The Songwriter’s words came back to me, however, when I noticed I had passed 40 posts. My writing was getting better. At the same time, I was posting more often.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It hurts now to go back and look at my early things. I had wanted to write about things important to me, but my thoughts, while clear in my head, where incoherent on the page.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There are so many things I want to say but I still lack the ability. Perhaps after 50 more posts the words will flow, perhaps sing. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-bottom: 6.0pt;">The confidence my progression as a writer has given me has inspired me to again follow the path I set out on when I was 17. I will be an Artist. I have decided to produce 100 Water Lilly Icons. I will not dally. I have set a goal of producing one every two weeks.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is enough time to be creative but not enough to ponder. I must paint, not think. I must trust my instincts, accept accidents and use them in my composition. It has become a great lesson in loving life, as it flows. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><o:p></o:p></i></div>Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-39100108207147052302010-10-30T12:35:00.000-07:002010-10-30T12:35:15.302-07:0090 LeftThe finished Collage from the post <a href="http://asinapicture.blogspot.com/2010/10/one-childs-icon.html">One Child's Icon</a>.<br />
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It's been two months since my Mother died. I can walk around without falling because <a href="http://asinapicture.blogspot.com/2009/12/visions-of-anger-and-sorrow.html">after the miscarriage</a> I learned how to pretend there was solid earth beneath my feet. I learned to work through the sensation of plummeting down the pit. It is an act. It is a conceit. I try to time and confine the worst despair to the rare moments I can be alone. I fail often at this. It still comes at random moments. Those are the easy times. Knowing what brings it on is the scary thing. It was the "O" word that got me. Orphan; the word folded me up like a cheap lawn chair. I am a Parent. I know about bottomless love, the unquenchable pride. The people who felt that way about me are dead.<br />
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I miss being a son. <br />
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Do I sound angry? I am. But if you sit with me a while I will only be sad soon. After that I may be happy for a brief time that my mother is no longer imprisoned a body that tormented her. After that I will be very quiet; when I realize again what that means and curse myself for it. I will be quiet for a long time. <br />
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Don't tell me it will get better. My Father died nearly three decades ago and I miss him every day. It gets worse because I understand more about my loss. I can add up all the things that should have been. <br />
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If there is one thing all the living can share it is grief. The feeling is exactly the same for the poorest child or the richest man. Know this. When you look into the eyes of stranger, behind whatever expression the eyes can veil, there is loss, infinite longing for someone they still love. If there isn't, there will be. If knowing this is not enough for you to treat each and every person with all the compassion you can muster, then Hell cannot damn you. You are damned as you walk this Earth. <br />
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Please forgive my anger, it will fade. In a little while I will smile, then I will be quiet.Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-26771765686295797972010-10-17T09:36:00.000-07:002010-10-17T09:36:45.958-07:00One Child's Icon<div class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg64txQtAG8Jjnjry9LTMiHSoTpHOunZwg4LzH6kE9c-WKFsFBlxFPj4t4bsDGveeojbG4cxr306ec2a8HGm3fy694rzj9_i3L9bSFVzr7eRmvUCHcJTr3L4Ta86q-ZN4rWDEoaBtJXFdw/s1600/220px-Lady_of_the_Gate_of_Dawn,_Vilnius_Lithuania.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg64txQtAG8Jjnjry9LTMiHSoTpHOunZwg4LzH6kE9c-WKFsFBlxFPj4t4bsDGveeojbG4cxr306ec2a8HGm3fy694rzj9_i3L9bSFVzr7eRmvUCHcJTr3L4Ta86q-ZN4rWDEoaBtJXFdw/s200/220px-Lady_of_the_Gate_of_Dawn,_Vilnius_Lithuania.jpg" width="155" /></a>It was my wife Rowena that taught me. The bread in the Priest’s hands is not a symbol of the body of Christ. It is the body of Christ. The wine is the blood of Christ. An icon offers the same chance for communion. The young girl at the <a href="http://www.ausrosvartai.lt/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=239&Itemid=249">Gates of Dawn</a> in Vilnius does more than view an artifact. She becomes part of its history, the history of the church that kept this image for centuries and the community that has protected the church. She participates in the embodiment of a young Palestinian girl in fear for her life and the life of her newborn child fleeing a great evil. She becomes part of an ongoing act of creation; the ethereal eternal life of the meaning of Faith. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2II6L3qUCiVV2WPpCifj_-kAbsO9sBLFkARtXe69Qg4dsD5LcGvr5UBgt_M9DYHi8xRGuzxZC9b8PDR5RqqKmstTp-OZSrU3i9KBOPRtTP3UvpVWNJJIGrTMToVWDtrlfA0achqHIIZI/s1600/Vishnu_and_Lakshmi_on_Shesha_Naga,_ca_1870.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="131" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2II6L3qUCiVV2WPpCifj_-kAbsO9sBLFkARtXe69Qg4dsD5LcGvr5UBgt_M9DYHi8xRGuzxZC9b8PDR5RqqKmstTp-OZSrU3i9KBOPRtTP3UvpVWNJJIGrTMToVWDtrlfA0achqHIIZI/s200/Vishnu_and_Lakshmi_on_Shesha_Naga,_ca_1870.jpg" width="200" /></a>Whether it is the story of the Last Supper, the <a href="http://www.ghostdance.com/">Ghost Dance</a> of the First Nations, the <a href="http://muslimvoicesfestival.org/resources/sama%E2%80%99-music-and-sufi-mystical-experience">Sufi Sama</a> or the Silver Madonna each culture offers communion. A transcendent and epiphanic experience that embodies a larger understanding. But it is always a work of art that is the point of contact, the navel from which Vishnu’s lotus springs. In Eastern cultures the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nymphaea_lotus">Lotus</a> represents many important concepts and appears in countless images and sculptures. One image pervasive to <a href="http://www.religioustolerance.org/hinduism.htm">Hinduism</a> is <a href="http://www.sanatansociety.org/hindu_gods_and_goddesses/vishnu.htm">Vishnu</a> in repose, <a href="http://www.koausa.org/Gods/God6.html">Lakshmi</a> at his feet, as he dreams the Universe. A lotus grows from his navel and within the lotus is <a href="http://www.webonautics.com/mythology/brahma.html">Brahma</a>, the creator. Everywhere the <a href="http://www.pbs.org/thebuddha/">Buddha</a> steps a lotus flower blooms. The opening petals embody the expansion of the soul. It embodies the ascension of the spirit from the earthly depths to the light of Heaven, the spirit that cannot be blemished.<br />
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It was the holy book “<a href="http://www.outdoorlife.com/fishing">Outdoor Life Magazine</a>” that led me. “Lunker Largemouth Lurk Beneath the Lily Pads” proclaimed the cover that featured a Bass with a <a href="http://www.punisherlures.com/float-fly/duck-feather-jigs.html">feathered jig</a> in its mouth soaring above a water lily. It looked just like the five pounder that hung on my friend's wall, and if there was anything my twelve-year-old self wanted it was a stuffed fish I could call my own. I knew just where to go. The east shore of City Lake was covered with Lily pads, completely covered. There was not an opening for my cast much larger than a truck tire and it was nearly impossible to reel in the lure without snagging the pads' long underwater stems. I decided to try the old standby of bait and <a href="http://www.ehow.com/how_4473770_fish-bobber.html">bobber</a>. But as it turns out the promised bass were not fond of this combo and I would spend many fishless hours watching the red and white plastic orb float motionlessly. Eventually I left the rod and reel at home and spent the days at the water’s edge amongst the enormous purple, pink and white flowers in solitude</div><div class="MsoNormal">This was my first <a href="http://www.iep.utm.edu/aestheti/">Aesthetic</a> experience. Something I chose for myself that had no desired outcome save its own existence. It is here that I learned about the bond of beauty and silence. I came because those two things dwelled there. I told no one, not even my family, of this. I didn’t know how. In college I tried. Our Eastern Art class spent a couple of days on the symbolism of the lotus. I found it quite exciting that half the world found significance in the same thing I did. But my understanding of the lotus was very different from the text and since my ideas wouldn’t be on the test they were greeted with a profound blank stare by the circle of friends that study grouped Art History 205. </div><div class="MsoNormal">As an artist I don’t just want to make pretty pictures; I want to give. And if I were to give you anything it would be the experience of being a young boy learning how beautiful the world is. How beautiful he is. We would follow the Tao down to the low places that most avoid and although we would walk through mud to get there, we would not be blemished. We would be there to witness the expansion of his soul. We would travel Vishnu’s universe together. We would never leave this place. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEishJZziecSybvsZILW4566Slpu8cGOUBhjQAHQilrtbqQEJgdBHL3gyw__LuGGXMolLKC-xMbm61S860DMjleLT5Wl-jAlBSK7SfxYbqdBlAJlQ5M1BVxkJ05H_VeOjRtkPF6pr4DpyYE/s1600/1014+Day+1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="296" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEishJZziecSybvsZILW4566Slpu8cGOUBhjQAHQilrtbqQEJgdBHL3gyw__LuGGXMolLKC-xMbm61S860DMjleLT5Wl-jAlBSK7SfxYbqdBlAJlQ5M1BVxkJ05H_VeOjRtkPF6pr4DpyYE/s400/1014+Day+1.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>Until I can offer this experience, I will offer you its <a href="http://www.gotquestions.org/familiar-spirits.html">familiar</a>. I will take paper and ink and paint and whatever else helps me find the image that I have held dear for four decades. I will bind all these things together. I will offer you One Child’s Icon. <span id="goog_1005849625"></span><span id="goog_1005849626"></span></div>Rudihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11553131830294303760noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7672935154382274273.post-8556320685777683552010-10-17T06:39:00.000-07:002010-10-17T06:39:18.632-07:00Family Icon<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhEj8JsPILnPP791Nay5oXQIP6E788KXixy9UvlsqaNnhnX7wIFD8nHbtAuTtCMkqwqB6LhgV7FWi7xIRtaEezpceLIYHHaIxZI3ErGSISvCrEUXFv3shHUWnN6naPyKgTLnfjsUvU0ac/s1600/Family+Icon+1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="239" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhEj8JsPILnPP791Nay5oXQIP6E788KXixy9UvlsqaNnhnX7wIFD8nHbtAuTtCMkqwqB6LhgV7FWi7xIRtaEezpceLIYHHaIxZI3ErGSISvCrEUXFv3shHUWnN6naPyKgTLnfjsUvU0ac/s320/Family+Icon+1.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br />
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"This is my Son. He's an artist." There was never any equivocation when my Father said this. No parent has ever introduced their Daughter the investment banker or Son the engineer with any more pride. In the decades since his death I told myself that he just didn't know how hard it is to be an artist. He didn't know about the doubt and derision. I wondered, how the oldest Son of a coal miner that quit school after sixth grade to labor plowing the fields behind the family mule would want me to work through the poverty and struggle to scrape up money for paint? Now I know. Two lines on a sheet of paper later I know. My Father wanted many things for me, but my Father knew me. My life was never going to be easy. I am too deeply in love with struggle and I do not readily accept the things I cannot change.<br />
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